Personality development   

   Personality development is mostly misunderstood by the people. Personality development is not something which can be forced on you to learn like a subject but it is a medicine which should work from inside of you. It is something which will help you to change your way of thinking. And when your way of thinking will change it will surely visible from your behavior and that changed behavior of you is called attitude.
    Most of the people misunderstand attitude as being serious always without talking much, but that's not true. Attitude refers to the way you carry yourself and always staying true to yourself i.e accepting yourself in the same way as who you are without bothering about the harsh comments what people give to you.I know that it is very easy to say but difficult to handle ourself when anyone say something which hurts us but believe me try to reply them at the face of them that they are no one to judge you as they are not God. It will give a lot of relaxing feeling in our mind if you do like this as you will be able to erase that matter from your mind and give you a satisfaction that you have given them a good reply at their face directly.

Personality development skills 

HOW TO BUILD ATTITUDE :

1.STOP BOTHERING ABOUT OTHERS
You should stop bothering about the useless comments of others.I know that it is difficult but if you will start loving yourself the way you are it will become very easy.


2.STAY AWAY FROM NEGATIVE PEOPLE 
stay away from those people who make you feel negative to higher extent.If you stay with the people who make you feel negative then you can never have positive approach to your life.


3 ALWAYS TAKE ONLY GOOD FROM OTHERS AND LEAVE BAD
Always take only the good in others and leave the bad.If you notice only bad in others you cannot live a peaceful life as everyone have good and bad side in them. There is a bird named swan which separates milk from water and drink only milk leaving the water away. This quality of swan teaches us that we should always take only the thing which is required to us and leave the useless.Take good from others which makes you fill your mind with needy information rather than garbage 


4.STOP COMPARING YOURSELF TO OTHERS
Never compare your life with others life as everyone's life situations are unique in their own way like our fingerprints.

5. BECOME A PROBLEM SOLVER RATHER THAN A BALMER 
Always concentrate on solutions rather than in problems. This will make you a wonderful problem solver.An analytical and intelligent person is liked by everyone. Such people creates a magnetic charisma in them.

6.ACCEPT CRITICISM AS AN ATTENTION 
most importantly you should never spoil your mind because of others. Always focus on your life goals and stop concentrating about the comments of others at your front and back.No matter what people say you should accept it and stop spoiling your mood.

The above mentioned points by me may seem irrelevant and also difficult to put into action but trust me once you learn how to build those qualities in you, you will be able to handle any type of person. And you can also be able to handle annoying people which irritates you with a charismatic smile on your face.
I hope my post has helped you to get some good information on personality development.